@Yasmina Am citit intr-o carte ('Selected writings,Vol.1; men,women,sex, feminism' de Frederica Mathewes-Green) ca adultii,batranii ii sfatuiesc pe copii sa amane casatoria,respectiv nasterea de prunci, ptr. ca ei isi retraiesc tineretea prin ei. Puncteaza bine multe aspecte in cartea ei.

"[...]But we no longer think of children as adults-in-progress. Childhood is no longer a training ground but a playground, and because we love our children and feel nostalgia for our own childhoods, we want them to be able to linger there as long as possible. We cultivate the idea of idyllic, carefree childhood, and as the years for education have stretched, so have the bounds of that playground, so that we expect even "kids" in their mid-to-late twenties to avoid settling down. Again, it's not that people that age couldn't be responsible; their ancestors were. It's that anyone, offered a chance to kick back and play, will generally seize the opportunity.[...]"(Cap.11 "Let's have more teen pregnancy")